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Multiple Steps To Success
by Roy Thomsitt
Having an interest
in online business, I often frequent forums that are for people
who have or want a successful online business. There is one theme
that recurs time and time again, and one that touches me with
sadness. That is, the number of people who sound despondent and
want to give up. You may think that such an attitude would be
confined to those who had at been trying to get their online
business going for a year or more. Often, though, it might just
be a month, or like an example today, three weeks.
Such a short term
view is totally unrealistic. In that particular case, the person
concerned was being given a kick start by a highly experienced
and well known internet marketer, for free. He was complaining
already, despite not having done anything himself, that he had
so far received no benefit, and that the whole idea needed to
be rethought, presumably so that he could be raking in a fortune
inside another month without doing any work.
That sort of attitude
is likely to lead to failure for a tough ambition such as making
a decent income online. Success at anything normally involves
taking one step at a time, sometimes along several parallel routes
that, eventually, run into one and bring you success. With working
online, for example, there are a wide variety of skills, methodologies
and pitfalls, all to be dealt with methodically en route to success.
Success does not come quickly unless you are very lucky; but
those who are patient, have a vision, and are prepared to work
hard, taking a step at a time, have a very good chance of succeeding....eventually.
I was not sure whether
to feel sorry for that particular poster, or annoyed with him
for complaining about what was some valuable free assistance
from a genuine expert. In the end, I felt neither, and left him
to find out the realities of life.
Most visions of success
do really need a number of steps to be taken, and success cannot
be achieved in one giant leap. A good example is with a professional
qualification, such as the management accounting qualification
for which I studied when I was younger. The end result, the "success",
was a certificate, but you could not just order that certificate.
There were several series of steps:
1. 5 stages of either
3 or 4 examinations had to be passed to qualify; a total of 18
examinations in all.
2. To pass a stage,
you had to pass each exam individually, which meant being well
inside the top 40% of students for each one. Fail in one, and
you fail the stage. That meant starting again.
3. Each examination
required different skills, knowledge and practical application
to succeed. Subjects were varied, such as computing, marketing,
financial accounting, organisation and management, contract law,
business law, and corporate planning. Each was a separate step,
requiring a separate approach, with no scope to put a foot wrong.
Each a big step in itself, with many little steps along their
own route.
Once a stage was
passed successfully, it was like starting all over again with
another series of steps, each getting progressively more difficult.
Many students fell by the way side or had to resit. There was
no avoiding the necessary steps.
That is true of most
ambitions in which you seek success. If success is really worthwhile
in something, it is unlikely to be easy and simple. So it is
best to bear that in mind when focusing on your goal.
Once you have a vision
of your goal, you need to recognize all the essential steps to
the goal's realization. There is no harm in imagining the final
success; visualization of fulfilment will help. However, you
do need to give appropriate attention to each of the essential
steps. In the professional qualification example, I hated business
law, but had to give it special attention to pass, otherwise
all my work on the other subjects in that stage would have been
worthless. Having got through that stage, the next included company
law, which was nothing more than a memory test. I hated that
even more; but still had to pass it.
Most worthwhile goals
have similar essential steps, which you need to recognise, and
then devise a plan to address each step with whatever effort,
knowledge, skills and practice you may need. Having formed your
plan for each step, you can then set about them methodically,
carving your way to success, one step at a time.
If you write down
your goal, and then the individual, essential steps, you will
have the great satisfaction of ticking off each step, and then
stand back and see you have reached your vision. Your goal will
be achieved.
About the Author
This success article was written by Roy Thomsitt. Learn and earn your way to success
at success university.
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