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What are the enduring truths about ourselves that we sometimes don't see or remember? These are truths that were recognized thousands of years ago, and have stood the test of time. Here are a few to consider, and some ideas about how to use this knowledge.
Enduring
Truth - Self Interest
We want what is best for ourselves. Even when we sacrifice for others, it is motivated by our own desires. These desires include good feelings, or wanting to see or make the world the way we want it to be. When we forget this, we become bitter trying to "do the right thing." To avoid this, we need to see how being a good person and doing the right thing is just self interest.
We also need to point out the self interest of others to them if we want to correct their behavior. Telling a man he is wrong isn't usually enough to change his behavior. It is better to show him where his true interest lies - that behaving in a better way is better for him. Remember self interest in dealing with others and with yourself.
Enduring
Truth - We Make Mistakes
Salvador Dali once said, "Have no fear of perfection. You'll never reach it." Some may see this as negativity, but recognizing the truth is never a negative act. We make mistakes. The greatest man or woman alive - whoever that may be - has done some stupid things.
This isn't an attack on greatness, but a recognition that it isn't dependent on doing things perfectly. Perfectionists almost certainly suffer for their demands upon themselves, and others hesitate to act for fear of mistakes. As Lao Tzu says, "Do your work, then step back - The only path to serenity."
Enduring
Truth - We Learn
Mistakes give us a chance to learn, and so avoid even bigger mistakes. We also can learn from our successes, and from the successes of others. Why not see mistakes and successes - our own and others - as the great opportunities they are. Seize the chance to learn more and so live better.
Enduring
Truth - We Can Change
You have seen people that seem to learn nothing from their mistakes and change little, right? Haven't you also seen, known and read about those who turned their lives around? The less important truth is that people often don't change. The far more important truth to remember, and the most important of these enduring truths, is that we can change.
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