Using Affirmations
Maybe you have used affirmations
before. perhaps you wrote positive statements on cards and repeated
them every day. Hopefully you stuck with it and got the results
that you wanted. Howevevr, more often, we find it hard to take
the time to read them every day, and without that constant repetition,
we don't get the effects that we could get. This is why affirmation
CDs and audios are so popular.
The idea of positive affirmations
makes sense to anyone who has noted how depressed they get when
they repeat certain thoughts or say certain things over and over.
If repeating negative thoughts and beliefs "works"
to produce a negative state, it makes sense that positive affirmations
would work as well. Of course, with a CD, it doesn't even take
time as with written affirmations. Push that play button and
go about your business while constant repetitions reprogram your
mind for success - that's easy.
However, what if you don't
like the affirmations that you hear on the popular CDs? Or what
if you don't want to spend a lot of money to buy eight different
ones for eight issues you are working on? Then it may be time
to make your own. Get a microphone for your computer and make
a CD, or just use a tape recorder, and follow the guidelines
below.
How To Make Affirmations
There are some "rules"
for making good affirmations that are likely to affect your unconscious
mind. The first rule: keep statements in the positive form. If
you say, "I don't bite my nails," your unconscious
mind - which has a hard time with negatively stated instructions
- may take it as "bite my nails." It's better to say
something like, "I take care of my nails with a nail clipper
and nail file."
Another rule for making affirmations
that work is to use repetition. You'll want to listen to your
CD as often as you can (and at least once per day for three weeks),
but it also helps to repeat the statements several times each
on the recording. Here's a trick to make them even more powerful:
use inflection with each repetition to create a slightly different
meaning. Look at the following examples:
I create my future with actions
I take now.
(The basic affirmation.)
I CREATE my future with actions
I take now.
(Meaning your future is created, and doesn't just happen.)
I create MY future with actions
I take now.
(Meaning it is your future.)
I create my future with ACTIONS
I take now.
(Meaning your actions are what matter in creating your future.)
One final "rule:"
Work on one area at a time. If you try to work on losing weight,
motivation, quitting smoking and making money all at once - it's
just too much to process. Start with one goal, such as "Improving
my relationships," and make an affirmation CD for that purpose.
Listen to that one for several weeks before starting the second
one.
Positive statements - repeat
them several times - use inflection to "squeeze" the
most meaning out of each statement - listen to them often and
consistently. This is how you make and use your own positive
affirmations.
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